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30 Habits and Mindsets of People Who are Unhappy

1. Unhappy individuals tend to quit more readily. To achieve things in life, you may need drive, motivation, and persistence. Unhappy individuals may lack in those… Trista Smith - July 8, 2019

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to exude happiness while you may feel stuck feeling less-than-happy? You may question what you are missing. You may also think that you have a right to be happy with your life but struggle to convey that.

Depression isn’t something that you’ll see out in the open. Sometimes, it’s not easy to spot until it’s too late. Depression is more than just sadness and lots of crying. It’s a constant numb feeling that never really goes away, even when someone engages in activities that they used to enjoy. So how do you recognize it? You have to look for other signs to tell whether a person is depressed.

Just asking if they are isn’t going to give you a definite answer either. Instead, there are some unusual habits that people who are hiding their depression have. So maybe taking a look at these will give you some insight into the kind of people who are more prone to depression, especially those you may not think are depressed.

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30. Unhappy individuals may possess unique talents and be able to express their feelings more effectively.

Don’t misunderstand this to mean that sadness and depression can make you a more skilled person. However, there is a correlation between those who are expressive in their everyday lives and higher risks of depression. No one knows for sure. However, it could be because they’re so attuned with their moods and feelings that they tend to be more receptive to negative emotions.

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Unhappy people may be able to express their thoughts and feelings through unique art forms. Whether that is painting or drawing, unhappy individuals can often express those emotions in a more detailed way. They may turn to their unique talents to express themselves rather than openly communicating with others because it is easier for them to do so. It may be challenging for them to open up to their loved ones or even a neutral therapist about what they are truly feeling, so turning to a more expressive art form allows them to release their emotions in another way. Other people think that expressive people tend to judge themselves more harshly than people who work in less-expressive occupations. It’s tough to say.

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29. They may have high defense mechanisms.

People who are more prone to depression tend to have higher walls around themselves, emotionally. This is because they don’t want other people to know that something is wrong, so they act fine to keep people at a distance. Unhappy individuals may want to keep others at arm’s length because they don’t want their unhappiness to be a burden to others as well. They may also feel embarrassed or that others will be judgmental, so it is easier to keep those walls up to avoid having those uncomfortable conversations.

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They start to learn that they’re very good at hiding their emotions and will use that as a defense mechanism so that no one asks any questions. In fact, they may seem extraordinarily upbeat, bouncy, and very lively. This habit is dangerous for everyone since no one will see the smaller signs that they need help and won’t know anything’s wrong until it’s too late.

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28. Unhappy people may struggle with abandonment issues.

People experiencing depression have a hard enough time trying to let people into their lives. That’s because they don’t want someone else to see them at their worst. However, on the small chances that they let someone in, it can be a lot for that person to take in, and they choose to walk away.

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That can be difficult for a depressed person to take, as they soon start to believe that everyone will eventually leave them. It also creates the false belief that their depression will only drive other people away and that it should be kept a secret from the world to want to be around them. However, it is essential to be cautious if you notice your loved ones are pushing people away because it is only further isolating themselves and increasing either sadness or unhappiness.

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27. Sad individuals tend to experience weird eating habits.

There is no in-between for people dealing with depression: they either too much or not enough. You may want to look for sudden changes in weight in either direction and intervene before things worsen. Eating is such a focal point for these types of people because it’s something that they can control.

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They can choose to ignore their hunger pains, or they can shovel as much food into their faces as they want. It’s also proven that eating foods that aren’t particularly good for you, such as sugary or fried foods, releases more serotonin into the body. Serotonin is responsible for alleviating moods and reducing anxiety, and that can become like a craving for those with depression.

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26. They may experience weird sleeping habits.

Sleeping too much or not enough seems to be the pattern for those dealing with depression. Because the body is out of synch with itself, the brain doesn’t know how to react and either released too much melatonin or not enough. Sleep is the second important element to good health, both physically and mentally. The problem here is that rest is also another element that the sufferer has control over. Being able to control at least one thing in their life gives that person some power when they feel like everything else is spiraling out of control.

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Unhappy individuals may struggle to fall asleep at night due to overthinking or worrying about what occurred during that day or coming the following day. The lack of sleep at night may cause them to feel the urge to sleep during the day. However, sleeping during the day can further contribute to their odd sleeping habits and create a distance between themselves and the rest of the world.

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25. They are always over-thinking things.

Because people with depression are not in control of their thoughts, they can quickly run away with them. They’re always swimming in a pool of thoughts and emotions, analyzing everything to see what the best outcome will be. Their minds can be a little messy and crowded, at the expense of everything else going on in their lives. This over-thinking can lead to some necessities being forgotten or omitted from their daily schedule altogether.

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The fear of failure is a huge, often overlooked reason that many people overthink things and are unhappy. Perhaps you have a goal in mind that you want to achieve. You know you want it, and you know how to make it happen, but your fear of failing is much stronger than your desire to achieve it. That can be a tough pill to swallow and one that is guaranteed to create some uneasy feelings. It is critical to realize that failure is a necessary step to success. Take care not to point it out to them as this may cause them to regress and hide their problems even further.

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24. Unhappy people feel the need always to be self-reliant.

Those with depression tend to look to themselves to solve their problems. They don’t seek outside help because they want to feel that sense of control over the situation before them. Many people consider this to be a good trait, as they’re self-reliant, but it can be detrimental to their psyches. Relying on only themselves 100% of the time can get tiring, and even if there’s some sense of fulfillment for completing a job on their own, that feeling never lasts long for a depressed person.

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By being self-reliant, they don’t have to worry about being disappointed. This can tie back to the fear of being a burden to others. They do not want to have to depend on others for anything. However, part of having a healthy lifestyle is also knowing when to ask for help when you need it. Life can be difficult, and humans rely on their loved ones to help them navigate all of the challenges. An unhappy individual may be adding to their unhappiness by being so closed off to others’ help.

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23. Unhappy individuals are always ready for the worst.

Depressed people are always prepared for the worst to happen. Instead of being hopeful and looking for the silver linings, they always and only expect the worst to happen. They may tell you that they’re just realistic about expectations, but you should realize that something is wrong when those expectations are still negative. It might be time to sit down and talk with them, but don’t force things if they don’t seem interested. Depressed people can get somewhat defensive about their emotions.

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Unhappy individuals tend to have a negative mindset already. They may struggle with seeing the positive or having faith because they do not want to face more disappointment. It becomes easier to think that the worst will occur from the beginning rather than facing it down the road.

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22. Habitual remedies, from mild to severe, might be a habit of unhappy individuals.

People with depression still like to keep a routine; that way, they can continue exerting some control over their lives. Even if someone is taking medication and seeking therapy for their depression, there are habits they’re going to practice in their everyday lives to keep moving in the right direction. It could simple patterns such as going for walks simultaneously every day, listening to music or doing exercise. It’s these simple exercises that keep them out of falling into those sinking feelings again that serve as the lifesavers to stop them from focusing on intrusive thoughts.

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We all have habits or hobbies that we enjoy or take part in for our overall health and well-being. Some of us work out daily or participate in sport activities to relieve some stress and have some structure to our days. Unhappy individuals are no different. They are likely to have habits that they look forward to or provide them with a sense of structure.

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21. It becomes normal to use cover-up stories.

Depressed people most time don’t want other people to know the truth, so they become experts at covering things up. They make up stories about their behavior, their change in appearance, or why there are scars on their arms. This need to distract from the truth is dangerous; it makes it hard for other people to determine that they need help, especially if they don’t know what to look for. Moreover, by the person playing it off as nothing, they’re also not accepting that they’re at a low point and should be looking for help.

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While they may understand that they are feeling unhappy, these people may be failing to dive into the root cause or causes and how they can heal. For someone unhappy for a long time, they may be less willing to seek help because they have gotten used to their lifestyle. Seeking help or being willing to work through those root causes will require much self-reflection and facing demons they may not want to.

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20. Sad individuals tend to have a heightened perception of life and death.

Not very many people understand that depression doesn’t always lead to suicide. After all, that’s all we hear about in the news. However, what depression does is skew one’s perception of life and death. The concept of one’s mortality usually comes to mind during moments of crisis or desperation. Also, with the fluctuation of moods, going in and out of these mindsets frequently can make these thoughts more prevalent.

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The waves of unhappiness can often go as quickly as they come. With those waves comes heightened perceptions of mortality, and those thoughts may cross their mind. However, once the wave passes, those thoughts may subside, at least for a little while. It can be challenging for unhappy individuals to navigate those reoccurring waves, especially not knowing when the next one will occur.

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19. Unhappy individuals have an intense understanding of substances.

Someone in control of their depression will be more adamantly aware of what’s going into their bodies. They may express a level of knowledge about substances that seems higher than the average person should have. They’re aware that sugars and caffeine are uppers for their moods and what medications will affect them. They know what medications they shouldn’t be mixing with foods, too, to cause an adverse reaction. It’s a responsibility they realize they can’t share with anyone else as they have to take care of their own minds.

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18. Individuals may always be searching for a purpose.

Many of those who are depressed are searching for a purpose or meaning in their lives. They need to find something that they consider worthwhile doing to feel like they’re moving in the right direction. This notion is because feelings of inadequacy and fear are active in the depressed mind, which they yearn for validation of some kind in their activities. It’s their way of trying to make themselves happy that doesn’t involve seeking help from others.

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The purpose they are seeking may look like landing their dream job, which gives them a sense of waking up in the morning, or it may be a hobby that they can excel at naturally. The feeling of a bigger purpose helps curb the feelings of loneliness or uneasiness.

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17. They try to seek love and acceptance.

As with finding a purpose, they’re also trying to find love and acceptance from those around them. They may strive to be a people-pleaser so that other people will like them. Also, it’s that seeking love and acceptance that they hide their inner demons. They want to be attractive to other people so that they can be seen as a friend. Not everyone is equipped to deal with the ugly head of depression, so it’s kept hidden to spare others from that discomfort. The goal is not to be dishonest but to appear as the best version of them possible.

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Unhappy individuals have conflicting feelings of wanting to disconnect and distance from others while also wanting to feel like they are part of something. They want to feel connected to their family and friends and like they are wanting. However, it can be challenging as feeling too engaged can be overwhelming and cause them to feel out of control.

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16. There may be subtle cries for help.

When you think of a depressed person, you think of someone that wants to be alone all the time and doesn’t want to talk to anyone. That’s partly true. Depressed people may generally pull away from other people most of the time, but there are some instances where their depression becomes too much to deal with on their own. Look for those moments when they choose to open up and talk about their conditions. These are the most crucial times where they’re crying for help. Try to meet them halfway but don’t react with anger. That will make them withdraw and not want to talk about it ever again.

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Someone who is unhappy and wanting help may not know how to go about it. The sad individual may worry that saying they need help is a sign of weakness. He or she might also be embarrassed. Sometimes, talking aloud about what is going on inside can be the first step in facing their realities. Lastly, they may be worried about being judged. Even if you do not understand what they are going through, welcome the conversation with grace; you should make every effort to listen to what they are saying. You may not have all of the answers, but it can be a substantial first step in the right direction if they feel supported.

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15. Individuals may make lifestyle changes to cope with their feelings.

If you know someone who doesn’t exercise regularly and then see them suddenly start going for a job every day, they could be dealing with depression independently. Engaging in some activity makes it easy for them to focus on something else other than their moods. Engaging in these activities helps to release endorphins, which can make the body feel better overall. This rush can cause them to seek it out more and more so that they start engaging in these activities more often.

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If someone is making positive lifestyle changes by eating healthier or working out, be their biggest cheerleader. Please encourage them to do what makes them feel good. Do not shame them or question their motivation as it may not be something they are ready or willing to discuss.

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14. Unhappy individuals may avoid all or certain aspects of their lives.

People with depression can sometimes choose to avoid everything. People, places, and even essential appointments they have don’t want anything to do with anything. This can significantly affect their lives, as they also skip paying their bills or going to classes. Depression is a horrible, cruel monster that makes it easy for people’s lives to be ruined. Avoiding regular activities and seeing people make it easier for them, as they don’t have to pretend that everything is okay. Especially on those exhausting days when everything feels like too much, they may choose just to sleep all day instead.

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An unhappy individual may not realize that avoiding all or certain aspects of their lives is further feeding the unhappiness. It can be too difficult to muster up the energy to face daily life tasks or responsibilities. Unhappy individuals may struggle with keeping a job, maintaining friendships, or keeping up with household tasks.

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13. They may have compulsive behaviors due to their unhappiness.

Many people with depression can start taking up compulsive, obsessive behaviors. Again, this is the need to control their lives that they felt have spiraled out of control. Some people may take multiple showers a day just because it’s the only way they know how to relax and feel good. In contrast, some people may engage in harmful behavior, such as trichotillomania (pulling out hair).

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Many unhappy individuals may feel that their minds are racing with a lot of different thoughts. To help combat the chaos that they may be feeling in their mind, they tend to focus on specific items or tasks. By focusing on specific tasks, even for just a little moment, they not only have control over what they are doing, but it can help them feel better. While some of these compulsive behaviors can be harmless, others can be harmful to physical or mental well-being.

These behaviors may be difficult to notice at first, if you don’t spend much time around that person. However, if you’re aware of what their normal day-to-day lives are like, then you’d have a better understanding of what seems out of the ordinary.

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12. Unhappy individuals will steer conversations away from themselves.

When people are depressed, the last thing they want to do is talk about them. They don’t want to admit to others that their lives are less than perfect and that they’ll be judged for their behavior or not reaching out for help. That’s why they tend to conversations more towards other people than themselves. They prefer actively listening to people’s lives than contemplating their own and how screwed up everything seems to be. Alternatively, worse, having to put those feelings into words and hoping they’re not judged for them.

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Talking to others about what is going on in their lives can be overwhelming. Not only does it potentially require them to talk about their feelings or what is going on in their life, but it can also be a trigger for comparison. We live in a society where social media has been known to contribute to comparing and unhappiness with our own lives. It’s essential to keep in mind that people generally do not post about the challenges or sad times. Instead, they are posting highlights in their daily lives. By talking about themselves, it can further add to comparing that their life may not be as fulfilled as someone else’s. While they may know deep down that not everyone’s life is as perfect as it seems, it can be challenging to accept.

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11. They may avoid eye contact.

People who live with depression tend to have a very low sense of self-esteem. They see themselves as below other people and not worthy of their attention. That’s why most people find it hard to make eye contact with other people during a conversation. They tend to look down or at anything else that’s in the room that they can focus their gaze on. It makes it easier for them to keep separated from the person they’re speaking with.

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Eye contact is often used to bring the two individuals together and show that you are actively engaged in the conversation. While unhappy individuals often feel beneath others and have low self-esteem, they may want to distance themselves from others. They may be dealing with internal thoughts and cannot focus on the conversation in front of them actively.

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10. Unhappy individuals may react to things, both unexpectedly and negatively.

Dealing with depression can be a tiring experience. There are explanations for every aspect of your life, not wanting people to discover the truth, and trying to figure out how to fix the problem on their own. Handling all of this by themselves builds up over time that when the smallest thing happens, that breaks the camel’s back, it’s interpreted as overreacting. This sudden outburst is a sign that something is wrong and that they’re overwhelmed with something. It’s more than just being in a bad mood.

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Unhappy individuals may struggle internally that they often do not wish to discuss with others for fear of judgment or embarrassment. On the other hand, if loved ones in their lives are genuinely unaware of what they are going through, they may not ask questions, leaving the unhappy individual carrying their thoughts and feelings alone. It can be complicated to reach out and ask for help. If unhappiness builds from one day to the next, there is bound to come a time when it is just too much to handle. This feeling may come in the form of a disruption in their planned activities or someone who is forced to do something they are not comfortable with. The unexpected interruption or change in the course can prove to be overwhelming. If the change had occurred on any other day, it might not be as big of a deal, but after time, it becomes too much, and to someone unaware of lingering feelings, it can appear to be an overreaction.

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9. They may be more likely to disappear for long periods.

Someone dealing with depression and trying to deal with it on their own may disappear for long periods. They may choose to disappear for a while, either by staying at home or going on a sudden drive somewhere without telling anyone. Coming to terms with depression on their own can become overwhelming that they need to take a break from everything else to stop themselves from falling apart. If you notice this pattern in someone you know, it may be time to intervene to see if everything is okay.

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Social interaction can be incredibly overwhelming and draining to an unhappy individual. Although others may not be aware of what they are dealing with, low individuals may feel completely alone and disengaged. They may not feel connected to others, even their own family and friends. It can further enhance their feelings of being alone with their thoughts. In an attempt to sort through or come to terms with those thoughts, the unhappy individual may take some time to be by themselves. It is vital to check on friends and family from time to time to see how they are doing. Sometimes that extension is all others are looking for.

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8. They are critical of everyone and everything.

Unhappy individuals tend to reserve their harshest judgment for themselves. There is no greater pill to swallow than that of self-contempt. However, they are also extremely critical of those around them and the situations they face. Finding ways to judge others keeps individuals in the negative mindset essential in sustaining an unhappy lifestyle. Focusing on others and what they may be doing wrong helps them not feel alone when criticizing themselves. Situations are often condemned to find the negative as well.

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Sometimes, it is more comfortable to focus on what is going wrong rather than look for what is going right. Also, looking for the positive in any aspect of life is not a practice in their daily lives. It is easier for them to resort to their habits and what comes second nature to them, which tends to be focusing on the negatives. While they often feel alone and compare their lives to others, being critical of everyone and everything creates some similarities and connections that they otherwise do not have. It is difficult not to over-analyze others, including the decisions and actions they are taking.

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7. Unhappy individuals tend always to worry.

One common habit of those who are unhappy is constant worrying. Sad individuals often look at life as the glass is half-empty, rather than half-full. Doing this can create a negative mindset and instill fear and worry in every situation, no matter how big or small. Something as simple as driving to work can generate worry in an unhappy person. Happy individuals tend not to worry as much and have faith that everything will be okay. On the contrary, those who are unhappy tend to worry more often and do not believe that things will be okay. Instead, they think about all that can go wrong.

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From the minute they wake up in the morning until the minute they lay down to go to sleep at night, they spend much time worrying about what is coming next. Also, their worrying nature can contribute to their unusual or unhealthy sleeping habits. It is not easy to turn their minds off. It is more than average worries. Many people may worry about a terrible snowstorm or their loved one who is undergoing surgery. Unhappy individuals tend to worry about every aspect of their day, from what they will wear that day or what they will eat for dinner. The constant worrying can exacerbate feelings of sadness or unhappiness.

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6. They crave control over life.

Unhappy individuals tend to run from uncertainty and, instead, desire control over every little detail. They worry their world will fall apart if they lose control and neglect to embrace the unpredictable nature of life. Struggling to take charge of every piece of life can be very consuming and can further lead to unhappiness. Individuals who are continually worrying about controlling every aspect of their day are less likely to be present and enjoy life moments.

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In addition, when an unhappy individual sees others that appear happy and fulfilled in life, it can look like they are in full authority over every aspect of their lives. There may be a perceived correlation between control and happiness. Those unhappy individuals may seek out power in an effort to achieve feelings of joy. It takes a conscious effort to accept that not every aspect of life is controllable slowly, and part of working towards happiness means embracing those uncontrollable moments.

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5. They believe that life is fundamentally hard.

For unhappy individuals, life is often viewed as a constant battle that has to be fought every day of every year. Reality is perceived as harsh and dangerous, which is only out to harm them. Life is ultimately viewed as one long struggle day in and day out. That can be tough to see and appreciate the ups and downs of life. It can also be arduous to understand that others also experience the highs and lows of life. Instead, unhappy individuals may feel that they are the only ones struggling with the terrifying, downward slope furthering their unhappiness.

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If they feel that they are alone in the daily struggles, it further contributes to their unhappiness. They may also be more inclined to close themselves off from others or be unwilling to talk about what is going on because they might feel that no one can understand or relate to them. Additionally, if someone communicates their struggles to the unhappy individual, they may feel the need to one-up them and try to add how their life is worse off. It is essential to understand that many people are dealing with specific challenges privately or have dealt with past issues.

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4. Their talk tends to revolve around gossip and negativity.

Part of who you are as an individual is what you say about and to other people. The conversation of someone with low spirits is often based around gossip or expressing how awful their life is. The focus tends to revolve around what is going wrong rather than what is going right. It can be challenging to maintain conversations that require deeper thinking. Unhappy individuals are typically more comfortable sticking with superficial level conversations. When in this mindset, it can be easier to think and talk about all that is wrong rather than finding what is going right.

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When an unhappy individual does communicate about how bad their life is or what is going wrong, they may be looking for validation. They may be more willing to open up and communicate if the receiving party agrees that life is difficult, and they have it hard. Since it is more difficult for an unhappy individual to think or speak positive thoughts, they may not react well to another party who only speaks and thinks positively. They are more likely to gravitate towards another individual that also focuses on gossip and negativity, which they feel they can relate to more. However, it is crucial to be mindful and not get caught up in these conversations as it only creates further sorrow.

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3. Unhappy individuals often compare themselves to others.

While we are all unique individuals who must walk our own paths in life, unhappy individuals may have a habit of comparing themselves to others—being unique means that our vision of what success looks like is different from others in our lives. Although comparison can be a habit for many people, those with some degree of unhappiness tend to focus on comparing their lives to those of others more often.

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In today’s society, social media can be dangerous. Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter are all highlight reels. However, it can be difficult for unhappy individuals to understand that fully. Many people with social media do not post their struggles. However, for someone sad and scrolling through one of these social media applications, it is easy to see that others appear to live their best lives. They may see images or posts of engagements, weddings, purchasing a home, or having a child. If the unhappy individual is struggling in one of those areas or still working towards it, it can quickly become a comparison of why they have yet to achieve it like everyone else. It can be difficult for individuals to appreciate what they do have as they will always view others as being better off than them.

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2. They tend to fill their voids with material items.

In addition to making comparisons to others, unhappy individuals may try to fill their void by spending money on material items. Purchasing material items can be a defense mechanism when trying to maintain an image with their peers and project a vision of a successful, happy individual. Unhappy individuals may believe that wearing name brand clothing or driving the nicest car signals to others that they are happy and satisfied with their lives. They may also feel that if they are not portraying an unhappy image by the way they live or items they purchase, others may not question them, and they will not have to explain themselves.

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In addition to attempting to maintain a particular reputation to others, purchasing material items can provide an exhilarating moment of satisfaction for a few moments. Despite knowing that these feelings may fade, unhappy individuals may tend to fill their lives with possessions in hopes; it will eventually aid in their happiness.

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1. Unhappy individuals tend to quit more readily.

To achieve things in life, you may need drive, motivation, and persistence. Unhappy individuals may lack in those aspects and often give up on tasks quicker due to fear of failure. It may be easier to accept defeat when you have not given it your all compared to when you put your everything into it. Individuals who view life as hard work don’t expect to succeed as often as someone who has a more cheerful outlook. Rather than facing disappointment or failure, the individual will decide to give up first.

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Unhappy individuals will choose to give up before failure is even an option. That may mean that they get a quarter or half of the way through a task or project before they quit. However, to maintain control of the situation and their life, they may choose to stop the moment failure is a possibility. They struggle to realize that the path to success is not always linear and is often composed of many highs and lows. They may lack persistence and only be willing to complete tasks that have a definite positive outcome.

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The Most Common Social Diseases Transmitted Through Intimacy

STD stands for sexually transmitted disease. Any disease spread through sexual contact is a sexually transmitted disease. People transfer STDs from one partner to another via… Trista Smith - July 6, 2019

STD stands for sexually transmitted disease. Any disease spread through sexual contact is a sexually transmitted disease. People transfer STDs from one partner to another via oral, vaginal, or anal sex. Because they spread through close contact, STDs are some of the most problematic infections to catch. They are increasingly common because the majority of people are unaware of how to prevent, treat, and avoid sexually transmitted diseases. It’s important to know that not all conditions that afflict the genitals are considered STDs, and some are just sexually associated.

Interestingly, most sexually transmitted diseases do not have any apparent symptoms. That’s why regular STD testing is essential. There is a wide variety of STDs, including bacterial, fungal, viral, and parasitic infections. In addition to being transmitted via sexual intercourse, some STDs spread through breastfeeding, childbirth, and blood. While abstinence is the best way to prevent the spread of STDs, it’s unrealistic for most people to stick to it. Using condoms, getting tested regularly, and having a small number of sexual partners helps decrease the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Please keep reading to learn more about the most common STDs and how to treat them.

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30. Human Papillomavirus (HPV)

The most common sexually transmitted disease is the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV). In fact, researchers have identified more than 170 different types of HPV. They designate them via numbers. Over 40 HPV types are transmitted sexually. Studies show that about three-quarters of sexually active people have had a form of HPV in their lives, and one-quarter of women have the infection. Most of the time, HPV infections present no symptoms and resolve themselves. Sometimes a virus will persist and cause precancerous lesions, which increase the risk of developing cancer in the mouth, throat, cervix, vagina, vulva, penis, or anus. Two types of HPV, 16 and 18, cause 70% of all cervical cancer cases. Each year, more than 30,000 cancer cases caused by HPV occur in the United States.

Nevertheless, the main risks for transmitting HPV include smoking, multiple partners, early age of first sexual encounter, and a weak immune system. Direct skin-to-skin contact is the primary method for HPV transmission. Contrary to what many think, people cannot transmit STDs via toilet seats or other everyday items. The human body clears nearly 90% of HPV infections within two years of infection, but there is a small chance of becoming dormant. Even if the disease is latent, it’s still transmissible through sexual contact. An individual has a 70% chance of becoming infected if they choose to have unprotected sex with an infected partner. HPV vaccines are the best way to prevent the most common strains of the infection. Doctors recommend that HPV vaccine shots before the onset of sexual activity. Between the ages of 9 and thirteen are recommended for the vaccines to be most effective.

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29. Genital Warts

Genital warts have been known as a sexually transmitted disease since 300 BC. Certain strains of the human papillomavirus (HPV) cause this STD. Warts appear pink in color and protrude from the skin’s surface. This common STD is known to be the most common symptom of a genital HPV infection. In most cases, genital warts appear between one and eight months after exposure. Unfortunately, they tend to cause few symptoms and are occasionally painful. Genital warts can sometimes be red, itchy, and uncomfortable. People can get anxious over outbreaks.

Types 6 and 11 of HPV are the common strains that cause a genital warts outbreak. An infected partner can transmit this STD via direct skin-to-skin contact during genital, oral, or anal sex. Doctors diagnose genital warts based on symptoms and take a biopsy for confirmation. Genital warts are not caused by the same strains of HPV that cause cancer. Condoms can prevent the transmission of warts as well as some HPV vaccines. The main treatment option involves a medicated cream and occasionally cryotherapy. About one-third of genital warts cases resolve on their own without treatment. Doctors estimate that roughly 1% of the United States population has genital warts. Close to one-third of those infected with genital warts will have them reoccur sometime after their initial infection.

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28. HIV/AIDS

Human immunodeficiency virus infection and acquired immune deficiency syndrome (HIV/AIDS) refer to many conditions caused by HIV. Since being identified in the 1980s, HIV/AIDS has killed an estimated 35 million people worldwide. This disease has significantly impacted society, as people with the virus are wrongfully discriminated against because of misconceptions surrounding AIDS. After being initially infected, a person may feel like they have the flu for a short time, followed by a long period of no symptoms. Once the infection starts to progress, the immune system gradually declines, making it more susceptible to developing tuberculosis and other diseases or tumors. Once the body begins to create additional infections, the infection becomes AIDS.

The most common methods for transmitting HIV are unprotected sex, hypodermic needles, contaminated blood transfusions, and from mother to child. It’s important to know that people cannot spread HIV through certain bodily fluids like tears and saliva. Safe sex, pre-and post-exposure prophylaxis treating those infected, and needle exchange programs are examples of preventative methods. However, there is no cure or vaccine for HIV/AIDS. Nevertheless, antiretroviral medication slows the disease down and can lead to a near-normal life expectancy. The average survival time for HIV/AIDS without treatment is 11 years.

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27. Gonorrhea

Also known as The Clap, the Neisseria gonorrhoeae bacteria cause gonorrhea. It can infect the mouth, genitals, and rectum. Most people affected by gonorrhea exhibit no symptoms. Those that do experience pain while urinating, pelvic or genital pain, and discharge. Gonorrhea can cause complications like epididymis inflammation in men and pelvic inflammatory disease in women. If left untreated, the infection can spread to the heart valves of joints. Additionally, men infected with the disease are at an increased risk of developing prostate cancer.

The main methods of gonorrhea transmission include vaginal, anal, and oral sex. Sadly, a mother can spread it to her child during birth. Doctors diagnose gonorrhea by testing the urine, urethra, and cervix. The best ways to prevent gonorrhea are being abstinent, using condoms, or having one sexual partner uninfected with the disease. People treat this STD with oral antibiotics and injections. Doctors recommend people get retested for the infection about three months after completing treatment. Roughly 0.8% of women and 0.6% of men around the world are affected by gonorrhea.

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26. Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)

Excessive bacterial growth in the vagina is known as bacterial vaginosis (BV). Symptoms of this infection include gray or white discharge, a fish-like odor, and burning with urination. Women with BV have twice as much risk of transmitting another STD like AIDS than women without it. BV can also contribute to pregnant women having an early delivery. BV is linked to an imbalance of the good and bad bacteria that live within the vagina; that’s why douching is not encouraged, as it can upset this balance and lead to the growth of harmful bacteria, leading to BV.

Commonly mistaken for a vaginal yeast infection, BV occurs when the natural bacteria in the vagina become unbalanced. Douching, taking antibiotics and having new or multiple sexual partners can trigger BV. Along with symptoms, doctors look for a higher-than-average pH balance and more significant numbers of bacteria in vaginal discharge. Luckily, people treat this STD with an antibiotic like clindamycin or metronidazole. Following treatment, it’s common for BV to make a recurrence, but taking probiotics may help prevent it from returning.

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25. Syphilis

Syphilis presents itself in four stages: primary, secondary, latent, and tertiary. In the primary step, a single painless sore appears. Next, a rash appears on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet. It will occasionally appear on the vagina or mouth. For the latent stage, which usually lasts for several years, the infected person will experience very few or no symptoms. The final, tertiary stage presents soft, non-cancerous growths, heart symptoms, and neurological problems. Syphilis may cause symptoms that mirror other diseases; hence, why people call it “the great imitator.”

However, sexual activity is the most common way to transmit syphilis, but it can also be spread from a mother to her child during pregnancy or birth. Because of that, the CDC recommends that all pregnant women get tested for the infection. Condoms are the best method for preventing the spread of syphilis. Treatment for this STD is a series of antibiotics. Some patients may experience muscle pains, fever, and headaches while being treated for syphilis.

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24. Mycoplasma Genitalium

Commonly known as Mgen, mycoplasma genitalium is small bacteria that live on skin cells located near the genital and urinary tracts. It means that you don’t have to engage in any intercourse to contract it; you can obtain Mgen from merely having sexual contact with the skin’s infected area. It causes adverse health effects in men and women and is becoming more common. This STD also puts those infected at a higher risk of developing and spreading HIV.

Mgen can cause urethritis in men and women as well as cervicitis and pelvic inflammation in women. Its symptoms are quite similar to chlamydia, and it seems to have higher incidence rates than chlamydia and gonorrhea. Doctors are doing research to see if Mgen is a factor in developing ovarian and prostate cancers. Treatment for Mgen is a series of antibiotic regimens. Unfortunately, Mgen is antibiotic-resistant in some cases, so treating it has become difficult. A five-day course of azithromycin is the most effective treatment plan for mycoplasma genitalium.

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23. Trichomoniasis

This STD is caused by the parasite Trichomonas vaginalis. Also known as trich, trichomoniasis shows itself in genital itching, odorous vaginal discharge, painful sex, and burning urination. Men infected with trich can have discharge from the penis. Nearly 70% of men and women infected with trich do not exhibit any symptoms. Pregnant women who have trich may end up delivering their babies early, and complications can arise, such as babies with low birth weight and transmission of the infection as they pass through the birth canal. Like mycoplasma genitalium, those who have it have an increased risk of contracting HIV/AIDS.

Furthermore, trich is circulated through genital touching and oral, vaginal, or anal sex. It’s possible to spread the disease even if you aren’t presenting any symptoms. Using condoms, avoiding douching, practicing abstinence, and getting regularly tested for STDs are ways to prevent contracting trich. People cure this STD with antibiotics, but 20% of patients become infected about three months after treatment.

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22. Lymphogranuloma Venereum (LGV)

Invasive bacteria stemming from three unique strains of chlamydia cause LGV, aka Durand-Nicolas-Favre disease. LGV attacks the lymph nodes through broken skin or mucous membranes. Before 2003, doctors considered LGV to be rare. However, a recent outbreak in the Netherlands caused a resurgence of the disease in the United States and Europe. An asymptomatic skin lesion first characterizes it. However, it turns into lymphadenopathy in the groin region. However, if you acquire the condition through anal sex, then the infection can evolve into severe proctitis in men. Symptoms of this include purulent rectal discharge.

The most common symptom of LGV is inflamed lymphatic tissue near the genital area. In some cases, those with LGV also experience an abdominal mass, decreased appetite, and fever. In women and men who do not display any symptoms, diagnosis is difficult. Along with antibiotics, treatment for LGV involves draining the swollen lymph nodes either by needle or through surgery. Moreover, after successful treatment, patients should engage in follow-up examinations six months later to ensure no longer infection.

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21. Methicillin-Resistant Staphylococcus Aureus (MRSA)

Most people wouldn’t think of MRSA as a sexually transmitted disease. Nevertheless, it is possible to contract it via sexual intercourse since transmission is through skin-to-skin contact. Despite this, however, contracting MRSA through sexual contact is quite rare. People commonly find MRSA in hospitals, nursing homes, and other facilities where people with weakened immune systems and open wounds. They are vulnerable to hospital-acquired infections. It takes roughly 72 hours for MRSA to infect human tissue and become drug-resistant.

Initially, MRSA presents itself as small, red bumps that look like pimples along with fever and a rash. After a few days, the minor wounds grow into large, deep boils filled with pus. Everyone carries bacteria on their skin, so the possibility of contracting MRSA is constant. Fortunately, it’s scarce to get MRSA through sexual contact. Luckily, washing hands frequently with soap and water, especially after sex, can keep your risk of getting MRSA low. It’s also a good idea not to share personal items you put on your skin to minimize infection. Examples of this include razors and tweezers.

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20. Pubic Lice

Commonly known as crabs, pubic lice is an infestation of the pubic louse, a parasitic insect that infests human pubic hair. It’s possible to have pubic lice living in other areas with hair like the eyelashes or abdomen. Itching is the primary symptom of pubic lice because of the skin’s hypersensitivity to louse saliva. Within two weeks of the initial infestation, that hypersensitivity becomes more vigorous, leading to extreme itchiness. Sexual activity is the way to acquire pubic lice. Moreover, the lice can only survive away from the human body’s warmth and humidity for a short period. There are three forms of pubic lice: the nit, the nymph, and the adult.

Lice eggs, or nits, firmly attach to the hair shaft, making them hard to spot. Nits take roughly 6 to 10 days to hatch. An immature louse hatches from the nit, becoming a nymph. Nymphs usually take about two to three weeks to grow into adult lice that can begin reproducing. Pubic lice must feed on blood for survival. It’s possible to remove lice by cutting the affected hair with scissors, but doctors recommend a topical treatment. You should apply an over-the-counter lice lotion. Keep it on the skin and hair for more than an hour. Additionally, you should use another round of medication within seven to ten days of the initial treatment to kill newly hatched nymphs.

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19. Herpes

Herpes simplex virus is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases and falls under two categories: HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-1 is the strain that causes cold sores, and HSV-2 produces genital herpes. However, both strains are very contagious. Nearly 70% of the world’s population under the age of 50 has HSV-1. Though there are several ways to transmit herpes, sexual contact is the primary source.

In many cases, symptoms of herpes never develop in those who become infected. Herpes is identified as watery blisters found on the mouth, nose, lips, or genitals. Unlike several other sexually transmitted diseases, herpes is a lifelong infection; there is no cure for this STD. The virus can go into dormancy, but you can still transfer it to a sexual partner during this time. Doctors prescribe antiviral drugs for treatment. They lower the chance of transmission and reduce the frequency and severity of outbreaks. You can use condoms to help reduce the risk of spreading herpes. However, herpes transmission is through skin-to-skin contact. Therefore, condom use is not 100% effective against herpes.

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18. Zika Virus

Most people know that the Zika virus spreads through mosquitoes. However, did you know people can transmit it via sexual contact? Doctors document sexual transmission of the Zika virus in six countries: the United States, France, Argentine, Chile, Italy, and New Zealand. The CDC recommends that men who have traveled in areas known for having Zika should refrain from sex or use condoms for six months after returning home. It’s essential to do so because even if you don’t show any symptoms, the virus is transmissible.

Zika virus causes Zika fever, which mildly resembles dengue fever. Joint pain, fever, headaches, and rashes are symptoms of Zika and typically last less than a week. Infection during pregnancy can cause microcephaly and other brain defects in children. Furthermore, no vaccine for Zika exists, and neither does a specific treatment. Doctors recommend rest and acetaminophen to treat symptoms. Using condoms and avoiding mosquito bites are the best ways to reduce your risk of developing the Zika virus.

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17. Hepatitis

There are many strains of hepatitis, but the most common one associated with sexual activity is hepatitis B. Hepatitis B affects the liver and can cause scarring, cirrhosis, and cancer. It can take one to six months for symptoms to appear, and many infected with hepatitis B don’t experience any after the initial infection. Yellow skin, fatigue, vomiting, abdominal pain, and dark urine indicate hepatitis B. This sexually transmitted disease spreads via exposure to infected blood or bodily fluids. It’s also possible for a mother to pass it on to her child during pregnancy.

Aside from transmission from mother to child, sexual contact and intravenous drug use are the most common infection methods. Kissing, coughing, sneezing, or breastfeeding cannot spread hepatitis B. The infection is commonly diagnosed 30 to 60 days after exposure. Fortunately, a vaccine is available, and it’s effective 95% of the time. One-third of the world population has been affected by hepatitis B at some point in their lives. Doctors treat chronic hepatitis B infections with antiviral drugs to stop the disease from replicating and minimize liver damage.

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16. Chancroid

Although chancroid, or soft chancre, is unusual in the Western world, it’s the most common reason for genital ulcers worldwide. Chancroid presents itself as large, painful sores on the genitalia. Ulcers can range from ⅛ to two inches and bleed easily. Swollen lymph nodes occur in 30 to 60% of those with chancroid, affecting the rest of the immune system. Women with chancroid can also experience pain during sex or urination. Half of the men infected have just one ulcer, while women can have four or more.

A bacterial infection found mostly in developing countries is the cause of chancroid. Only one case of chancroid per two million people in the Western world has been diagnosed. Those people have contracted the disease after visiting a developing country. Chancroid comes with an increased risk of contracting HIV. Roughly 10% of those with chancroid also have another sexually transmitted disease like HIV/AIDS or syphilis. There are treatment options that cure the infection and prevent transmission of the disease to others. Thankfully, there are no adverse effects of chancroid infection in pregnant mothers to have healthy normal births.

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15. Chlamydia

Chlamydia rarely presents symptoms. In turn, it is the most common STD. If symptoms do develop, it’s several weeks after infection. Men may experience painful, swollen testicles, discharge, and burning with urination. For women, painful urination and vaginal discharge may occur. Chlamydia can spread to a woman’s upper genital tract, possibly causing pelvic inflammatory disease, ectopic pregnancy, or future infertility. Frequent Chlamydia infections that go untreated can cause trachoma, a common cause of blindness.

It’s possible to transmit chlamydia via oral, vaginal, and anal sex as well as during childbirth. Doctors recommend yearly screenings for sexually active women under the age of 25, people with a higher risk of STDs, and pregnant women. Using condoms, not having sex, and having just one uninfected partner can reduce your risk of contracting chlamydia. This infection is easy to treat; people cure it with a round of antibiotics. It’s common to wait seven days after the end of treatment before having sex. You should also be tested again three months following procedure. Worldwide, chlamydia affects 4.2% of women and 2.7% of men.

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14. Scabies

Known as the seven-year itch, scabies is a severely contagious skin infestation. People do not commonly know this condition as a sexually transmitted disease. However, people can share it through skin-to-skin contact. Scabies cause a pimple-like rash and extreme itchiness. Symptoms typically appear two to six weeks after being infected. The disease may appear all over the body or just in certain areas like between the fingers, wrists, and genital regions. Pain and itchiness associated with scabies tend to get worse at night.

With scabies, a female mite burrows into the skin and lays eggs. An allergic reaction to the bugs is what causes symptoms. Between 10 and 15 mites are responsible for creating an outbreak of scabies. A relatively long period of direct skin contact with an infected individual can result in transmission. At least 10 minutes of sexual contact or another method of touch is needed to get scabies. Latex condoms are ineffective at preventing scabies transmission because the mites tend to travel from person to person via other areas of the body, not the sexual organs.

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13. Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Pelvic inflammatory disease occurs when bacteria from another STD travel from the vagina or cervix into the uterus. Like many other sexually transmitted diseases, PID usually displays no symptoms. When present, symptoms include fever, vaginal discharge, irregular menstruation, and pain or bleeding during sex. If left untreated, PID can cause extreme complications like infertility, cancer, ectopic pregnancy, and chronic pelvic pain. 75 to 90% of PID cases result from gonorrhea and Chlamydia infections. 10% of chlamydia and 40% of gonorrhea infections left untreated will lead to pelvic inflammatory disease.

Among risk factors of developing PID include STDs, drug use, and a high number of sexual partners. Doctors say vaginal douching can affect PID. Doctors consider PID when treating women of childbearing age with abdominal pain. Using condoms and having few sexual partners can reduce your risk of developing PID. Also, if a woman is at risk for contracting chlamydia screening and treatment reduce their risk of developing PID. A single antibiotic injection and two weeks of oral antibiotics can treat PID in women with mild symptoms. More severe cases require intravenous antibiotics. PID affects an estimated one million women in the United States every year.

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12. Nongonococcal Urethritis (NGU)

Inflammation of the urethra caused by something other than gonorrhea is known as nongonococcal urethritis. NGU is more common in men. The main cause is from touching the mouth, genitals, or anus with an infected penis. Symptoms include burning while urinating, discharge, itching, and tenderness of the genitals. There are many causes of NGU stemming from the wide variety of organisms that live in the urinary tract. This sexually transmitted disease comes from an infection that is viral, fungal, bacterial, or parasitic. Conducting tests and urine samples may determine what kind of condition it is so that you can start treatment immediately.

Testing for NGU is relatively simple. Does the person’s discharge show any signs of gonorrhea bacteria? If not, the doctor’s diagnosis is NGU. A strain of chlamydia bacteria causes roughly 23 to 55% of cases. Doctors recommend a broad range of antibiotics to treat NGU because many different bacteria can cause the infection. Infertility and infected testicles can occur if NGU is left untreated. Using condoms is the best way to reduce the occurrence of NGU infection.

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11. Molluscum Contagiosum

People occasionally call this STD water warts. Molluscum contagiosum is a viral skin infection with small, dimpled pink lesions. They can be sore or itchy and commonly affect the abdomen, genitals, arms, legs, and face. Injuries tend to appear seven weeks after infection and fade away within a year. The molluscum contagiosum virus spreads through skin-to-skin contact like sexual activity. People can also transmit it by using a contaminated object like a towel. An infected individual also spreads the infection to other areas of their body, making treatment options more complicated.

A weak immune system, crowded living conditions, and eczema are risk factors for developing molluscum contagiosum. It’s also possible to become reinfected after the initial infection, so care should be taken in washing clothes and other household objects properly to minimize the chance of reinfection. Avoid sharing personal items, and be sure to thoroughly wash your hands to reduce your risk of developing molluscum contagiosum. Treatment isn’t required, but having warts frozen or scraped off can help your skin look better and prevent spreading. A topical cream can also help reduce the infection. Roughly 1.8% of the world’s population has molluscum contagiosum.

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10. Penile Candidiasis

Candidiasis is a fungal infection that is a result of a type of yeast. That is similar to what is in yeast infections, but it can be sexually transmitted in some instances. Penile candidiasis is rarer than yeast infections, but engaging in anal sex with an infected person can result in the fungal infection spreading. Thankfully, it is scarce for the disease to spread to the rest of the body. The most common symptoms of penile candidiasis are red skin around the head of the penis, irritation, itchiness, lumpy discharge under the foreskin, and pain during urination or sexual intercourse.

You can prevent such yeast infections by wearing cotton underwear so that the skin can breathe, minimizing the risk of yeast infections. Washing the area regularly with antibacterial and antifungal soap can also help reduce the risk. In the event of an illness, you can take a range of antifungal medications orally. Alternatively, you can apply topical medications to the skin.

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9. Cytomegalovirus

Cytomegalovirus, or CMV, is an STD that spreads through bodily fluids. You might be surprised to see that it is widespread, and there is no way to tell if someone has it. Some people might develop a mild rash or cold-like symptoms. However, some infected people have no signs or significant consequences. Since there is a considerable lack of symptoms, people are usually completely unaware they have it. Doctors estimate that more than 80 percent of the U.S. population are carriers. CMV is sexually transmitted. However, most of the time, it is entirely asymptomatic.

The most common symptoms will include fever, pneumonia, diarrhea, ulcers, or behavioral changes. That is if you show symptoms. More severe symptoms might consist of inflammation of the brain, seizures, blindness, and even coma. There is no cure for CMV. Once you are infected, your body will retain the virus for the rest of your life. The largest population at risk of CMV includes pregnant women and those with compromised immune systems. One shocking fact about CMV is that about four in 10 Americans become infected with CMV before puberty. However, they are not necessarily infected through sex but rather through contact with saliva.

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8. Mucopurulent Cervicitis

Mucopurulent cervicitis, aka MPC, is a STI of the cervix. Many different germs can cause MPC. These include germs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, or other germs that are unknown. Females can get MPC through unprotected sexual contact with an infected person. That person has the germs that cause MPC. Oral, vaginal, or anal sex without a condom can cause MPC if they are with an infected partner. What’s incredibly scary is that you can pass on the germs without even knowing it. The best way to prevent MPC, similar to any other STD or STI, is to use a condom.

Similar to some other STDs, some people with MPC do not display any symptoms. On the other hand, others may experience some symptoms, including vaginal discharge, bleeding between periods or after sex, pain in the abdomen, or pain during or after vaginal sex. Get tested by a doctor to determine if you have MPC. If left untreated, MPC can be harmful. It can spread to the uterus, fallopian tubes, or ovaries. The good news is that MPC is treatable with antibiotics. You will still need to be careful, though, because you can get reinfected if you again have unprotected sex with an infected partner.

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7. Mononucleosis

You have likely heard of this illness; people commonly refer to it as mono or the kissing disease. It is typically caused by the Epstein-Barr virus (EBV). Mono generally isn’t too serious of an illness, but it can lead to many complications that can make it more dangerous. Symptoms of this disease can range from mild to severe. EBV is part of the herpes virus family. You might even carry the virus in your body for your entire life without having any symptoms of mono. It spreads through bodily fluids, including blood and semen. Mono can also be caught through medical procedures such as blood transfusions or organ transplants, although it is rare.

Mono can cause different symptoms in different people. Interestingly, you might not display symptoms for seven weeks! Some of the most common symptoms can include fever, fatigue, sore throat, and sore muscles. Some individuals might have no signs or ones that are mild that they don’t even notice them. It usually takes a few weeks for people to recover from mono, but it can take up to six months in some cases. Your doctor can usually diagnose mono based on your symptoms. They can confirm the diagnosis with a complete blood count or antibody tests. Mono can be challenging to detect if you’re not aware because the symptoms are common in many illnesses.

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6. Human T-cell Lymphotropic Virus

One of the very few STDs that can cause cancer is the human T-cell lymphotropic virus (HTLV). This scary virus is in the same class of viruses as the HIV/AIDS virus. It is passed on through a few potential avenues. The most common is through sexual contact. However, you can contract the virus through exposure to contaminated blood such as a transfusion or used needle and potentially through breastfeeding. Although not as common in some areas, this particular HTLV virus is endemic in Japan, the Caribbean, South and Central America, West Africa, and the southeastern U.S.

One of the most alarming aspects of HTLV is that there are little to no symptoms of infection upon infection. Instead, the virus tends to manifest later in life. When it has all that time to grow and mutate, it can create much more extensive health issues. Roughly five percent of patients with HTLV will be diagnosed with adult T-cell leukemia-lymphoma. It can also cause the incapacitating neurological disease HAM/TSP. HTLV can cause uveitis, an inflammation of the eye that can cause blindness and rheumatic syndromes, which causes your immune system to start attacking your own body tissues. Currently, there are no prospects for an effective vaccine.

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5. Shigella flexneri

Shigella flexneri is a nasty bug that is a family of pathogens that cause extreme diarrhea. It can result in E.coli and salmonella. You can pass it on by direct or indirect contact with human feces. Typically, shigella flexneri spreads when people do not wash their hands. However, it can also occur when people unknowingly drink contaminated water. People commonly associate this disease with young children and travelers in some low and middle-income countries. The reason it is on this list is that it can also spread through rectal sex. Small outbreaks occur, and there is concern about antibiotic resistance.

The infection causes severe stomach cramps and extreme causes of blood and mucus-filled diarrhea. Diarrhea helps to transmit the bacteria. The antibiotic azithromycin is the most common treatment for Shigella flexneri. It is the same medicine doctors use for gonorrhea. However, there are concerns about future resistance to antibiotics. It has caused doctors to suggest a less popular treatment strategy. For adults who do not have underlying health conditions or compromised immune systems, doctors are commonly recommending withholding antibiotics. They prefer to let the virus take its unpleasant but typically limited course. It is highly infectious, so you should always be extremely careful.

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4. Donovanosis

Donovanosis is a genital ulcer disease. The bacterium that causes donovanosis infects the skin around the genitals, groin, or anal area, ultimately causing ulcers and destruction of the skin. Donovanosis is a known risk factor for the transmission of HIV. After infection, one or more painless ulcers, or lumps, will develop on the genitals or around the anus or mouth. However, doctors cure the disease with antibiotics. Without proper treatment, the ulcers can increase in size and form a raised red fleshy lump that progressively destroys the normal skin. Other bacteria can then infect the sores, which also causes them to become extremely painful and distressing. They might even have an unpleasant smell.

You can spread this sexually transmitted disease through sexual contact. Symptoms can appear anytime from one to four weeks after infection. However, it can take up to a year for the condition to develop in some rare instances. A very tiny amount of individuals might become infected through direct, nonsexual touch. It means that they simply had some form of skin-to-skin contact. If treated promptly, donovanosis will go away with an antibiotic, and the ulcers can start healing within days. Depending on the severity of the case and the infection stage, you might need to take antibiotics for several weeks. It is essential to take the full course of medication to ensure a full recovery.

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3. Intestinal Parasites

You might have heard of intestinal parasites before. Likely you associate them with contaminated food or drink. However, you might be surprised to learn that it spreads through sexual contact. Intestinal parasites are microscopic, one-cell animals that infect the intestines. The most common symptoms include diarrhea, abdominal pain, nausea, and even vomiting. The most frequent transmission avenues are sexual through oral and manual contact with the anus. You can test for intestinal parasites by examining a stool sample. Doctors recommend that you use appropriate protection during any form of intercourse.

You can also get intestinal parasites from contaminated sex toys that are contaminated. Performing oral sex might also be a problem. Generally, intestinal parasites people treat this STD with a prescription and an over-the-counter medication. It is typically not a lifelong infection. Millions of people have these parasites. The majority of the time, the conditions are usually asymptomatic and often go unnoticed. However, some can become chronic infections and can lead to serious health consequences if not adequately treated. For people with weakened or compromised immune systems, such as those with HIV, intestinal parasites can be severe and potentially life-threatening.

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2. Neisseria meningitidis

Neisseria meningitides can cause invasive meningitis. It is a swelling of the protective membranes covering the brain and spinal cord. If not caught early and properly treated, meningitis can be deadly. Several things can cause this STD, including parasites, fungi, viruses, and specifically Neisseria meningitidis. The bacteria have evolved to survive in the genitals causing them to be sexually transmissible. Surprisingly, Neisseria meningitidis is exceptionally similar to Neisseria gonorrhoeae, which is the bacteria responsible for gonorrhea. People often mistake the symptoms for each other, although the Neisseria meningitidis microbe doesn’t always cause symptoms.

Roughly five to ten percent of adults carry Neisseria meningitidis in the back of their nose and throat. It means that they have the potential to transmit the bacteria through oral sex to their partners. These are scary facts because doctors believe that the gonorrhea microbe and the Neisseria meningitidis may have exchanged DNA at some point. Gonorrhea is slowly becoming resistant to all but just a couple of antibiotics. That means that Neisseria meningitidis may also develop the same resistance one day. Five types of Neisseria meningitidis are responsible for most infections worldwide, but two vaccines can currently offer protection against all five.

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1. Hepatitis A

There are several forms of hepatitis, including hepatitis A or (HAV). It is a contagious and acute liver disease that does not become chronic. The virus’s infection can be extremely mild, lasting for a few weeks, or more severe and several months. You can contract Hepatitis A when an unvaccinated person eats or drinks infected fecal matter through objects, food or drinks that carry the virus. You can also transmit it through sexual contact whenever a partner’s fluids mix with infected fecal matter. The most commonly known way people contract hepatitis A is sexually through oral-anal contact with someone carrying the virus.

People can also contract it through anal sex. Hepatitis A is incredibly contagious. If you become infected, you are contagious even before you display symptoms. Most people with hepatitis A will feel ill for several weeks, but it is common to recover without any permanent or long-lasting liver damage. If you do experience symptoms, they are likely to be fatigue, stomach pain, and nausea. Your body will develop antibodies, after you contract this STD. That you, your body will be unable to get it again. The best method for prevention is vaccination as it is highly effective at preventing infection. You should also always thoroughly wash your hands and practice safe sex.

Sources:

Discover – These Four New STIs Are On the Rise

Teen Vogue – Here Are 5 STDs That You’ve Probably Never Heard Of

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