Health

16 Things to Know Before Your First Appointment With The Gynecologist

16. What you take home, information, treatments After you have finished your first appointment with a gynecologist, you should know and understand a lot more about… Simi - July 8, 2018

If you’ve just opened your butterfly wings and transformed from a child to a young woman, chances are your lady bits are doing some interesting things. Any young woman who has started menstruating needs to start thinking about her reproductive health. You should plan a quick checkup with the doctor who specialized in this work, who is a gynecologist. A gynecologist is specialized in woman’s health and her reproductive organs. A gynecologist can also be an obstetrician, and therefore is also involved both in pregnancy and in helping women deliver their babies.

A gynecologist is also an expert in any kind of disease of the female reproductive system, including the breasts and the urinary system. Once you have become an adult woman, it is a good idea to have a specialized gynecologist examination to check your reproductive health. Your doctor will also refer you to a gynecologist if you have any problems. If you have anything like painful periods or burning pee, then you need to see a gynecologist.

The idea can be scary but preparing for the first time will make the whole thing much easier. If you know what to expect you can also fit in some time for some questions of your own. It might be the first time that you strip down to the buff and expose your nether regions to someone you have never met, but your gynecologist has seen and examined the genitals and breasts of hundreds of women.

Really, your gynecologist has seen all shapes and sizes. They will not be fazed by anything you have to show them. So now is the time to take the plunge and go and get checked out. After all, having peace of mind is way better than feeling a bit shy and if you know what to expect you will get the most from your appointment.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

1. What to say when you set up the appointment

You need to phone your gynecologist’s office and ask for an appointment. It helps if you can be specific. Think about what you are going there for. If you have just started menstruating, you might need reassurance that your reproductive system is functioning. A girl can start her periods anywhere between 8 and 15 years. Your periods will normally start around two years after your breasts have started developing and you have armpit hair. Armpit hair is the first sign that your menarche or very first period will be arriving.

You should probably have your first checkup within two years of the arrival of all of these. If you already have breasts and armpit hair and your period have not yet arrived within a year, then you should also go to the gynecologist for a checkup. You might have amenorrhea, which is an absence of periods.

You should also see your gynecologist if your period has changed in any way, if you have more or less bleeding than usual, or if you have more painful or irregular periods. The average cycle is 28 days, but cycles range between 21 and 35 days. Your cycle could be different, especially because an adolescent’s cycle needs time to settle down. It could even be a 45-day cycle to start with.

You also need to be clear about what else you might need to know from your gynecologist. If you need to explore any birth control options, now is the time to ask. There are many different options available, and your gynecologist will be able to tell you what is most suited to you. They discuss any issues with you, and if you are prepared, then you will be able to use the time profitably.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

2. Before you go

Remember to take any medical exams that you might have already done, like blood and urine test results. Anything of your medical history that could be of interest to the gynecologist should be shared with them. If you have a referral letter from another doctor remember to take that too.

Have a quick shower so that you are feeling clean and fresh or give yourself a wash under your armpits and around your vagina. You should not be using harsh detergents as these can likely cause irritations of the mucous membranes. Also, any powders or creams or intimate sprays cannot only cause irritations, but they can also affect test results.

Write down any questions you might have so that you can remember everything you might need to know. As well as the questions it is a good idea to know your family history. The gynecologist will want to know your mother’s history and also your older sisters if you have them. If your mother had any kinds of problems, this is important information for your gynecologist.

Also, make a note of your periods. One of the questions you will most definitely be asked is when was your last period. If you are at all forgetful, it will help to have this written down. It is also important to know so that you don’t arrive there in the middle of your period. If you have a record of all your periods over a longer time span, it is even better, especially if they are irregular. You can easily find a period calendar that you can start marking them a couple of months before you decide on the checkup.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

3. What happens when you get there?

You will most probably arrive at your gynecologist’s office and be met by a receptionist. By this stage, you might have already told her on the phone that this is your first visit and why you are there. So, there is no need to blurt out your worries in front of a room full of waiting people, just give her your name and tell her whom you have an appointment with.

Many gynecologists have rooms in medical centers together with other health experts; so don’t be worried if the waiting room is full of people who don’t look like likely candidates for a gynecologist visit. There is also no need to feel embarrassed about going to see the gynecologist; it is a normal part of health care. Even if you know that you might be going to inquire about birth control, the rest of the waiting room doesn’t know that.

If you are started to feel embarrassed and sweaty, you can nip off to the bathroom and have a quick rinse. Some gynecologists have a bidet in their ladies’ room, so if you are feeling uncomfortable about being sweaty, you can nip into the toilet quickly and give yourself a quick wash.

If there is no bidet to wash yourself with in the bathroom, you can fill up a bottle with water and just rinse yourself while sitting on the toilet. This is not necessary, but if it makes you feel better and fresher then go ahead. If your gynecologist is going to ask you for a urine sample, then you should also drink some water and forego having a pee. If you are expecting to have a pelvic exam, it is very uncomfortable with either an empty or a very full bladder.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

4. How does the appointment work?

You have been sitting in the waiting room for what seems like ages, with your heart pounding, feeling embarrassed, and finally, someone pops their head out and calls your name. What happens next? You will follow the person who has come to call you into the visiting rooms. This might be the nurse or the assistant or even the gynecologist themselves. They will sit you down at their desk and begin the appointment by asking some questions.

The first questions will start with your age, weight, and height and will establish your general level of health. They will ask you when your last period was and how regular they are. This is the moment to show your period calendar, which evidence the regularity or not of your cycle.

If they are going to give you a physical exam they might do this first and ask questions after you have dressed again. In this case, you will be shown to a changing booth or asked to undress behind a screen. If they are going to test your urine, you will be given a test tube or container, and you will be asked to go to the toilet and fill that. Normally this is done separately, but if they do test your urine, it could also happen at the end of the appointment.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

5. The questions

Be prepared to discuss your menstrual cycle. The gynecologist will want to know when you had your first period or menarche and how they have been ever since. They will also probably want to know how your periods are.

A typical menstrual period will last from about 3 to 5 days, and the flow of blood can also vary somewhat. Your gynecologist will want to know how long yours last and what kind of blood flow you have. If your blood flow is very heavy, then they will also need to know if you are anemic. They can see this from your blood tests, and if you don’t have those, they will either do them there or give you a referral to have it done.

Any kind of very heavy or abnormal bleeding can have several causes, and your gynecologist will need to know what is causing it. Some causes are serious while others are easy to treat. You should also bear in mind that if you have just started your periods, your hormonal changes might be causing irregularities in both the flow and the regularity of your periods.

If you are having severe cramps, this is called dysmenorrhea and is often caused by an imbalance of the prostaglandin hormone. Cramps can also be caused by uterine fibroids or endometriosis, but this is more common in older women. However, your period is, you will need to be able to describe it well. In the case of any kind of problematic period, your gynecologist will look for a cause and help you with medications and painkillers.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

6. You will also have to discuss your sex life

You might not yet be having sex, but you might be contemplating it. In this case, you will need to discuss birth control, so be frank about your needs and intentions. If you are already having sex, your gyno will want to know. Really there is no sweat about being frank here. Your gyno will not be judgmental. They are there to help you with your needs.

Sexually transmitted diseases also known as STDs are infections spread by sexual activity, which includes vaginal and oral sex as well as anal sex. They can be caused by yeasts, bacteria and viruses and parasites and can cause more problems for women than for men. These can be dangerous if you are pregnant, causing serious health problems for your baby.

There are many different types of SDTs, and your gynecologist will be able to give you information on the risks, prevention, and cure of these. Anybody can get STDs and teenagers are particularly at risk. Not treating them can put your health at risk and can cause infertility.

If you have any questions, now is the time to ask them. It is also the best moment, to be frank with your gynecologist even though you may have just met them.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

7. Your family history

The gynecologist is also going to ask you about your mother’s health and if you have them, also about your sister’s health. A little bit of preparation here will stand you in good stead.

What you are going to want to do ahead of time is ask your mom some probing questions. First, you’ll need to know her age and what age she was when you were born. Then you should ask her if she had any problems with the pregnancy. Some of these questions might only be necessary if you are pregnant, in case there are any genetic problems that could be passed down.

If you are worried about menstrual issues, then you need to know if your mother had any and how old she was when she had her first period (her menarche). Did she or any other female in your family have endometriosis or even ectopic pregnancies? You need to know if there are any issues in your family health history. Before your appointment try to find out as much as you can about the medical history of your family, especially that of the other females.

If you have any pelvic pain associated with your period, you could have endometriosis. Although having painful periods is common when you start menstruating, severe pain could be caused by the buildup of the tissue in your womb. This is called the endometrium, and the pain is due to the congestion when the tissue also grows outside the womb. It becomes trapped in your body and causes irritation and pain. Symptoms include excessive pain during your period, pain urinating or during bowel movements.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

8. What are the exams?

Firstly, the gynecologist will ask questions then they will pass on to the physical exams. This might be the part that you are most worried about, but you might not be given a pelvic exam on your first gyno visit. Normally you will have a pelvic exam if you are sexually active or if you have turned 21.

Your very first gynecological visit should include an examination of your breasts and your genitals and abdomen. They will also check your height and weight. You will need to take your clothes off for the breast exam. They might give you a small sheet to put over you, so you feel less unconformable, or they might give you an examination gown. Once you take your clothes off to have your breasts checked, remember that the gyno is not judging you and they are there for your health.

They will ask you to lie down on the examination table, and they will examine your breasts with their hands. What they are looking for is anything that is irregular, like a lump or thickening. They will palpate your whole breast all the way around with their hands. They might ask you questions while they are doing this. This might make you feel more comfortable. You could ask what they are doing so that you could learn to do a breast exam for yourself. You should do this to yourself at least once a month. Doing a self-exam is one of the best ways to find any breast lump.

After the breast exam, they will then examine your genitals externally. The gynecologist will look at your vulva, and examine the soft folds to check for signs of redness, irritation, discharge, cysts, genital warts, or other conditions. They will also look at the opening of the vagina.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

9. The pelvic exam

Once these two exams are over, there is a possibility that the gynecologist is going to carry on and do a pelvic exam. In this case, they will ask you to bend your knees and draw your feet up. Some examination beds have a stirrup-like contraption at the end and to get to these, you will have to slide all the way down to the point where your hips are almost off the edge of the examination table.

You will have to lift one leg at a time and hook them over the stirrups until they are supported under the knees. You might feel a bit unstable at first then you will realize that you are fully supported and there is no danger of you slipping off the examination table or out of the stirrups. Being exposed like this might feel a bit embarrassing, but for the doctor, it is the best possible position to be able to see properly into your pelvic area.

You might be given a drape sheet to place over your tummy, which will make you feel more secure. At this point, you need to take a deep breath and relax, try and relax your legs so that your knees fall open. Relax your abdominal and vaginal muscles and just breathe into to. It does feel uncomfortable the first time a stranger puts their hands into your vagina, but it will be over soon, and they know what they are doing.

They will insert two fingers inside your vagina and will press with the other hand on top of your abdomen. They are looking for any swellings or growths and feeling your uterus and ovaries. This might be slightly uncomfortable but will not hurt at all.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

10. The Pap smear

Once you have had the manual examination which will only take a few minutes, the gynecologist will take out the speculum. The speculum is a metallic duck-billed shaped instrument that can open its beak at the mouth of your uterus.

Before inserting it, the gynecologist will check the angle of your cervix with a finger to help angle the insertion of the speculum. Then you will feel the sensation of the instrument sliding into your vagina. It will most likely feel cold, but it should be lubricated, so it should slip in with no problems. You will then hear the sound of the speculum being screwed open, and you will feel a stretching sensation as it opens up around the mouth of your uterus.

Once the speculum is correctly in place, the doctor will have a good look, maybe even shining a torch at the mouth of your uterus. Now you are ready for the pap test. They will open a surgical packet containing swabs on a long stick. Some doctors will clean the cervix until it is free of mucus and then take a swab. Others will scrape some cells onto the swab and put it into a special solution to be sent to the laboratory for analysis.

This scraping around inside your vagina might be a bit uncomfortable. It won’t be pleasant, but it won’t hurt, and it will be over soon. There is really no way to describe the sensation, but pap tests are part of being a woman and having female reproductive organs, and they will always be a part of your life.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

11. Birth control

The good news is that all the uncomfortable exams are over unless you have decided on a form of birth control that needs to be inserted like an IUD. An IUD is an Intrauterine device that will need to be inserted into your uterus, after the Pap test when you still have the speculum in place.

This can be a painful operation and often the gyno will ask you to do it when you have your period, as the mouth of the uterus is softer and slightly more open. The advantage of the IUD is that once it is inserted, you don’t have to worry about it for two years. If you have a steady partner and are not using condoms to avoid STDs, this can be a good choice.

Now is the moment to be honest with your gynecologist. If you are already sexually active or if you are planning to be soon you need to discuss birth control. You need to be able to leave their offices with what you need in hand.

Remember a doctor has a physician-patient privilege, and they will keep everything you tell them confidential. Nothing that you say will be going back to your mother or anyone else. You can make the foundations of a trusting relationship in this first appointment. Being honest with your gyno will be crucial for your health. They will need to know your sexual history to asses concerns about STDs, pregnancy, and even any concerns about domestic violence, sexual abuse or LGBTQ issues.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

12. How you look is not important!

Remember you don’t have to dress up to go to your gyno, nor do you have to shave or do anything about your vaginal hair. Your doctor isn’t going to judge you for your physical structure, you’re being shaved, or neat or groomed in any way.

Your gyno has seen everything, and they don’t care about what your vagina looks like. They are there to ensure your health and not to judge you. They have seen it all before. What they are going to be looking for is any abnormality in your reproductive organs.

Your gynecologist will look at issues related to pregnancy, menstruation, and menopause. You can discuss family planning with them. This includes contraception, pregnancy and the termination of a pregnancy. They will also look for any problems with the tissues around the pelvic organs and any problems of the reproductive tract. They will look for the presence of cysts or abnormalities.

They will also help you with all and any type of issue with your sexuality. They will be able to advise you about any sexual dysfunctions. They can help answer your questions about same-sex sexuality. With all they have to worry about, they will not be looking at how neat your vaginal hair is, or if you are smelling of roses.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

13. The exam is for you

Your gynecologist should go out of their way to make you feel comfortable during your appointment and physical exam. After all, you are there to look after yourself. If you feel in any way uncomfortable, you can always opt out of the physical exam and have it at a later stage.

You should also decide whether you feel more comfortable with a female gynecologist or a male. Both male and female gynecologists undergo the same training. In most countries, it is a further four years of specialization after a medical degree. Having a male or a female gynecologist is a different experience, and you should think about what you would prefer.

You also need to know when you feel ready to have a physical examination. You can start seeing a gynecologist within two years of starting your periods, but you don’t need a physical examination until you are sexually active or have reached 21.

Once you have started having sex, then it is a good idea to have regular check-ups and plan your contraception. You can choose when you want to have your first appointment, and you can choose who you want to have examined you.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

14. Follow-up call

If you have an appointment at a private clinic, then you can expect the clinic to give you a follow-up call. Your gynecologist will also want to see the results of your pap test before it is handed over to you. You might have to go to the clinic to collect the results of the Pap test, which will be given to you in a sealed envelope.

Your doctor might want you to pop into their office to look at it together. They might have time to explain to results to you, or they might want you to schedule a follow-up visit. In this case, they will check up on any treatment they might have given you. If you have been given the birth control pill, they will want to check your blood pressure and weight and your general health, to check that your body is functioning smoothly under the new hormonal regime of the pill.

If you have had your blood and urine tested, the gyno will want to see the results along with the results of the Pap test. If the Pap test is normal, then you will only need to take that again in three years’ time. If there is anything that is not one hundred percent normal the doctor will want to have another look at it.

They should also give you antibiotics or the correct treatment for any kind of STDs you might have. If the gynecologist gives you a prescription for anything then you can ask what it is for and what it does. Make sure you know how long you need to take it and if it has any side effects.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

15. Schedule your next appointment

Although you might have felt nervous on your first visit, now that you know what to expect you will be able to take the next appointments in your stride. You may as well get used to them because, from the time you start seeing one, you should have a gynecologist checkup at least every two years and a pap smear every three.

If you are sexually active and at risk of STDs then you should see your gynecologist at least every year. You should also be looking after your general physical health so that your weight to body mass index falls into healthy parameters and your lifestyle is healthy.

This includes eating a healthy diet, doing some exercise and not smoking. If you make good lifestyle choices, you will be able to stay healthy over time. If you keep yourself free of STDs by using a condom, you will also ensure your future reproductive health.

You will need to see the gynecologist if you have frequent lower back pain, pelvic pain, abnormal bleeding, itching, pain, swellings or lumps in and around your vulva and any changes in your breast or armpits.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

16. What you take home, information, treatments

After you have finished your first appointment with a gynecologist, you should know and understand a lot more about your own body and your reproductive health. Your gynecologist should have shown you how to do a breast exam on yourself and explained various contraception methods. They should also have suggested the possibility of having some specific vaccines for young women like the Human papillomavirus vaccine, or the Hepatitis A vaccine.

You need to evaluate whether these vaccines are necessary and will be good protection for you. The choice to have them is yours, and you should be informed about any side effects before you decide to have them done.

You should also have been given exhaustive information about the different types of birth control that are available to you. You should have decided together what form is best for you. If you have decided on birth control that requires a prescription, then you should leave the doctor’s office with the prescription on hand.

If you need to have a blood or urine test, or a further specialist checkup, then you should have all the prescriptions and referrals in hand when you leave. If you need to follow a treatment scheme you should know what it is, what it does and how long you will need to do it for. You should also know when you need to go back and over what kind of time period. You should know when to keep up with routine exams, tests, and immunizations.

Also Read: Try Not to Cringe During these OB/GYN Horror Stories.

Food

15 Foods That Could Give Everybody’s Love Life A Boost

People who subscribe to natural healing methods believe that almost any ailment can be cured by natural supplements or food. These people avoid medicine at all… Simi - July 7, 2018

People who subscribe to natural healing methods believe that almost any ailment can be cured by natural supplements or food. These people avoid medicine at all costs, as they would rather not pump their bodies full of chemicals and foreign substances. Whether this opinion is valid or not is a question that should be left up to the respective experts.

There is, however, one thing that cannot be denied. This is because foods and herbs are not simply useful for sustenance. They have other added benefits that could be considered medicinal in nature if one were open to such things. The specific benefit that is of interest here is sexual function and desire.

Sex is not as taboo a topic as it was a couple of decades ago. People are now substantially more open to talking about it than they once were. Specifically, they are more interested in talking about how to make sex better. Yes, there are always those little blue pills that could help. There is also a range of products that boast of being able to enhance the enjoyment of the act altogether. But, what about the argument of prevention is better than cure?

Are there certain things a person can consume in order to enhance their sex life from the inside out? The following foods claim to do just that. Each target is something specific. But, a combination of a few of them could very well aid you in attaining the love life you have always desired.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

1. Maca

For this libido-boosting food, we head deep into the Andes of Peru. The maca plant is not really all that nutritional in this context. Rather, it is the root that is of interest. This root has multiple health benefits, all of which can be derived from consuming the product in some form. A fresh version of the root can only generally be found in areas that are close to where the farming takes place. For those that do not have access to farmers in the Andes, they have the option of obtaining dried maca root. This can either be bought in powder or pill form, both of which are equally effective.

The maca root is a very healthy little vegetable to consume. It is an incredibly good source of carbohydrates and protein. Along with these, there are also a couple of vitamins and minerals which are highly beneficial. These are Copper, Iron, and Vitamin C. There is one benefit, however, which is incredibly interesting. It is that maca has been known to be quite effective in the bedroom so to speak.

The first method by which it enhances one’s sex life is by increasing libido. This applies to both men and women. The research done on this topic is rather limited. But, there is evidence to suggest that if one were to consume 1.5 to 3 grams of maca each day for six weeks, then they would be on the receiving end of a relatively elevated sex drive.

Maca can also apparently contribute to the quality of male semen. This has been investigated in both healthy and infertile men with the results being similar. After consuming maca for four months, it seemed as if not only had the sperm count increased, but they also appeared to have increased motility.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

2. Green Tea

Is there anything that green tea can’t do? Read any article that expands on the health benefits of certain foods, and you can bet that green tea will be somewhere on that list. And here it is on this list too because green tea apparently has its uses in the bedroom as well.

Green tea has been ingrained in Asian cultures for literally thousands of years. They consumed the leaves as a beverage, but they have long been aware of its medicinal benefits. These range from aiding in weight loss to maintaining the health of one’s hair. In between those two options, there are tons of other reasons to drink green tea. Some of these are that the tea delivers a powerful caffeine boost which can sufficiently compete with coffee, it has been known to combat cancer, it can lower blood sugar levels, strengthen the immune system and much more. If the internet is to be believed then regardless of your ailment, green tea could prove to be useful.

Now that all of that is out of the way, how exactly is it useful when it comes to sex drive? Everyone knows that green tea is packed with antioxidants. Broadly speaking, these combat free radicals which are thought to be responsible for the natural aging process in people. There is, however, a specific antioxidant which is of interest. This being catechin.

Catechin is an antioxidant that helps maintain the health of blood vessels, and it regulates circulation. A person’s desire to have sex along with their ability to perform at the moment is very much dependent on blood flow. Without sounding crude, blood needs to flow to the related sexual areas for there to be any kind of reaction or pleasurable feelings. With this in mind, it is clear what a couple of cups of green tea a day could do for one’s sex life.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

3. Chocolate

When you begin to hit the gym, you might have a personal trainer on your hands who nags you about giving up sweets and pastries. They are most certainly not wrong, but you may want to hang back before you give up chocolate altogether. Go right ahead and avoid white slices of bread, donuts, cookies and the like but maybe consider keeping some chocolate in the cupboard just in case.

Chocolate is quite delicious, we all know this. But, believe it or not, there are certain things that are actually quite healthy about chocolate. No one is saying that it is healthy food, but it is not all bad. The one thing that chocolate can boast about is endorphins. For those who have never come across this convoluted word, endorphins are chemicals that get released in the brain that make you feel good. It should be noted that this does not exclusively mean in a sexual context. This sense of feeling good can simply be considered a rush of happiness.

For a bit of context, endorphins are also released when a person bites into a chili or jumps into a cold pool. Endorphins are why, following these activities, a person is slightly buzzed and elevated. The specific way in which chocolate releases endorphins is that it contains a compound called phenylethylamine. This compound activates the endorphin release in the brain. Once this is done, a person is left feeling quite happy.

It does not take a rocket scientist to put two and two together here. A happy person is much more likely to want to engage in amorous activities. At the end of the day, it might actually be beneficial to give your partner a box of chocolates on date night. Mind you, it should be 70% cocoa chocolate if they are to receive the best possible results.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

4. Crab

Talking about crabs along with sexuality may bring to mind some horrid images due to conventions. But, before you hop off the page thinking gruesome STD images are about to follow. Be safe in the knowledge that this is definitely referring to the variety that is found at the seaside and not in the doctor’s office.

Considering the world-renowned reputation that oysters hold in this arena, it should come as no surprise that there is another shellfish hitting the list. This time, we are talking about those clawed little critters that scramble along the sand and pose a very significant threat to one’s toes. Those red devils could land up being just the snap that you need in the bedroom.

Crab legs specifically are high in the mineral Zinc. It can be strange to think that this could be beneficial to the human body. Is it not what kitchen sinks used to be made of? Yes, it was, but it is also quite vital to a man’s testosterone levels. In a man’s body, testosterone is largely responsible for the traits that we associate with traditional masculinity.

High levels of testosterone result in increased muscle mass and definition, aggression and you guessed it, sex drive. There is obviously not enough zinc in crab legs to suggest that it could be a replacement for steroids at the gym. Its zinc levels are quite negligible when compared to pharmaceutical-grade products. It can, however, raise a man’s testosterone levels just enough to give him that extra boost to and in the bedroom. The next dinner night that rolls along, consider skipping the chicken and instead opting for delicious crab legs. You might be thanking yourself for that later when you both are scrambling into the car in a great hurry to get home.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

5. Nuts

This one must seem like an absolute joke. Nuts make for better sex, who would have thought? But, while you sit there giggling like an 8th grader consider the following scientifically verified facts regarding nuts and their relation to sex.

With the vegan movement in full swing, people are stocking up on nuts wherever they go. They do this because they have been told that nuts are incredibly healthy and can provide an excellent protein alternative to meat. This is in fact correct. Nuts do boast quite a large amount of protein when one considers their relatively small size. But, protein is not all that nuts have to offer.

They also contain an amino acid called L-arginine. Not only do nuts contain this amino acid, but they have quite a lot of it. Arginine is a precursor to a gas called nitric oxide. If you are thinking about nitrous oxide and the wildly fast cars in Fast and the Furious, then you are not entirely wrong, but we most certainly are not talking about cars. Instead, we are talking about the male sex organ which is none other than the penis.

When nitric oxide is released into the bloodstream, it causes vasodilation. This is the dilation of blood vessels, specifically those in the penis. This is basically how erections arise, literally. What’s more, nuts do not discriminate as they are beneficial to women too. Almonds, in particular, contain a fair amount of Vitamin E. This has been known to combat vaginal dryness which is very necessary if you have big plans in mind. In order to derive these desirable benefits from nuts, it is not sufficient to throw back five almonds a week. Instead, aim to consume at least a handful of mixed nuts each day. Just make sure to include almonds and walnuts in that handful.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

6. Saffron

For this natural aphrodisiac, we head back to the mysterious orient. This spice is the most expensive spice on the planet, so it is not advised that one goes to town with it when making that next romantic dinner. But, whatever you do, do not forget about it because it is a very powerful aphrodisiac. Unlike some of the other items on the list, its effects are not only derived after a lengthy period of consumption.

Inside these deliciously colored strands, there exists a compound called carotene crocin. One might be tempted to think of carrots upon hearing the word carotene. But, this compound in saffron does a lot more than improve one’s night vision. When carotene crocin enters the bloodstream, it does something quite curious to the brain. A bunch of chemical reactions produces the chemical Picrocrocin. This is what acts on the brain and increases the sensitivity of a person’s sexual organs. In plain terms, a person will be more sensitive to touch in those areas after consuming saffron. This is naturally very desirable when it comes to sex, but saffron’s help does not end there.

Saffron is also quite a good stress reliever. It aids in reducing a person’s overall stress and tension levels thus resulting in a relaxed and calm individual. While sex itself may be quite active and vigorous, everyone knows what stress and tension can do to a person’s performance.

As this is a spice, it might seem like quite the task to include it in one’s diet. What does a person even make with saffron? The answer is very simple, take a quick squizz through Indian and Spanish recipes. Both of these should offer a couple of dishes that should include saffron in their composition. One can even throw a couple of stands in milk to spice up their evening cup of tea.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

7. Ginseng

Apparently, Asia is stocked with herbs and spices which aid in the fight against sexual dysfunction. At this point in time, people in the West are probably thanking their lucky stars for cultural mixing because ginseng is apparently another powerful aphrodisiac. In certain studies, it even ranks higher than saffron, which has already been expanded upon.

There are various different types of ginseng, ranging from South Korean ginseng to American ginseng. Each may be a different strain of the plant, but with each, only the root is consumed. By examining records, it is clear that ginseng has been around in Chinese culture since at least the 2nd century AD. And this is only the first appearance of it in written records. It probably was a part of the folk culture long before then.

In Asian culture, this root has been rather integral in traditional medicine, but it is only now being studied scientifically for its health benefits. Specifically, what it can do for people in the sexual dysfunction topic. Ginseng contains compounds called ginsenosides. These are the chemicals which are thought to aid in sexual dysfunction, but it is not yet clear how they do this. It is very difficult to study the effects of aphrodisiacs on women as it is not as clear-cut as to whether there is an erection or not. Regardless, there have been studies that have shown that ginseng could increase both male and female libido.

While this is a natural supplement, it cannot be consumed by everyone. People who suffer from hypotension or diabetes should definitely not consume ginseng, especially American ginseng. If you do suffer from one of these conditions and are looking to treat sexual dysfunction naturally, then it is best to consult a physician before initiating consumption of this supplement. At the very least, avoid overly processed products which contain anything other than Korean ginseng.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

8. Red wine

There exists a very delicate balance between alcohol and sex. Moderate amounts of alcohol may lower one’s inhibitions and increase sex drive but have one drinks too many, one might find themselves completely unable to perform. While all alcohols are equal when it comes to someone getting tipsy enough to hop in the sack, they do not quite affect sex drive the way that red wine does.

There are those that drink a glass of red wine each night because of the supposed cardiovascular benefits that the rose-red substance delivers. Experts disagree on the specifics of this point, but they mostly concede that red wine does in fact aid in blood circulation.

The link between blood circulation and sex is quite a logical one. The more a person’s blood is pumping, the more pumped they will be for said activity. But, how much red wine is one to drink if they were looking to spice up their sex life. For this answer, we look to a study that was done on Italian women. It is quite fitting actually to speak to an Italian about sex and wine come to think of it.

This particular study was done on 80 women, and the results were relatively unanimous. If a woman drank two glasses of red wine a day, she reported having a satisfied and full sex life. On the other hand, were those who drank more than two glasses or none at all. These women appeared to have a less than satisfactory love life. These results are circumstantial at best and possibly would not stand up to intense scrutiny. But, can you think of anything wrong with having two glasses of red wine before dinner? The slight fog that settles over your mind could be just the thing to get you in the mood, not to mention the possible increased blood flow to vital areas.

Also Read: Health Benefits of Drinking Intoxicating Beverages.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

9. Peppers

If you want hot sex, then eat something hot. If that sounds like an oversimplified version of things, then you may be getting a little too cynical for your own good. Because eating hot food, specifically, anything containing peppers or even the pepper itself if you are feeling brave could spice up your sex life. The pun is fully intended.

The link between endorphins and happiness has already been elaborated. But, for clarity, here is a quick refresher. Certain things, like chocolate or a dip in a cold pool, force your brain to release endorphins. These are chemicals which literally lift a person’s mood. This is not to say that endorphins can cure all of the blues, but they can, for a moment at least, make a person feel happier and energized. Peppers do the exact same thing.

When you bite into pepper the first thing you notice is the unbearable pain. Your eyes are watering, your tongue is burning, and it seems like the heat will never go away. But there is something else that is going on if you take a moment to notice it. You do actually feel a bit high after eating pepper. This is not the high that is produced from drugs. But rather it is like a rush of energy. This is the endorphins in your brain at work. And it is this which may get you in the mood to have some alone time with your loved one.

The second way in which peppers can aid in raising one’s sex drive is that they promote circulation. The combination of an increase in blood flow along with the feel-good chemicals that are pulsing through your body could indeed up a person’s sex drive. How much exactly is dependent on each individual and how they react to the heat of the peppers.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

10. Apples

When the doctor told you to eat an apple a day, it’s safe to say that you thought it would maintain your immune system and not much else. But little did you, or even the good old doc know, that it could be enhancing your sex drive on the side. This green and delicious fruit is known to be wonderfully healthy. Delivering a burst of flavor and vitamins with each bite.

One could go on and on about the health benefits of apples but that is not really why you are reading this article is it? Therefore, in order to give you what you came here for let’s take a look at the specific compounds that are included in Eve’s favorite fruit. Firstly, there are those wonderful antioxidants again. These will improve blood flow and overall circulation. Then there are lovely little things called phytoestrogens.

As the name suggests, there is a similarity between them and the estrogen family. In broad terms, women have estrogen while men have testosterone. Obviously, it is far more complicated than that, but for the purposes of this list, we can leave it at that. This gender specificity means that men are unlikely to derive any sexual benefits from apples. Making the apple fruit for the ladies.

A study was done on at least 700 women. It found that the women who ate apples regularly, this was at least one or even two apples a day, reported having a better sex life along with an increase in their vaginal lubrication. This study is a relatively small one, and its results have not been corroborated yet. But, could it really hurt adding a few apples to one’s diet. The worst-case scenario is that your sex life remains unchanged, but you are slightly healthier.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

11. Oysters

If history is to be believed, then this one is a no-brainer. There are two individuals who are of interest here. Namely, Cleopatra and Casanova himself. These people may be separated by decades, but they have two things in common. The one is that they were great seducers of their time and the second is that they both loved oysters. Is this just pure coincidence or is there some scientific merit to this combination?

It should be noted here that scientific research in the field of sexual dysfunction or function is always circumstantial to some degree or other. Every person is unique in their sexual desires, and it is not always easy to tell whether a person has a raised libido or not. With this being said, evidence suggests that oysters are in fact a natural aphrodisiac.

Like crab legs, oysters have high levels of zinc. This directly impacts the amount of testosterone that a man produces. The equation is quite simple; more zinc equals more testosterone. Furthermore, elevated levels of testosterone correspond with increased sperm production and motility. This means that oysters could actually increase the fertility of a man by boosting his little swimmers.

There is one thing that oysters apparently do that crab legs do not. This is because oysters reportedly boost dopamine levels. This is not limited to only men as women may experience increased dopamine levels following oyster consumption. Dopamine is the feel-good hormone. When it is released a person feels happy, it is as simple as that. For a bit of context, dopamine is also dubbed the love hormone as it is thought to be prevalent when people fall in love. Oysters may make a man more virile, but they could also make both parties happy enough to want to take things a bit further. To take the next step right into the bedroom if you will.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

12. Watermelon

Now seems like a good time to talk about those little blue pills that changed the lives of men the world over. This would be none other than Viagra. Viagra is a pharmaceutical-grade libido enhancer. All one needs to do is pop one of these pills, and they are set to go for a couple of hours at least. Viagra is very effective, yes. But, it is also artificial and has been known to cause major complications for those who have heart conditions or high blood pressure. It is at this point where watermelon comes in.

There are some, not all but some, who have taken to referring to watermelon as a natural Viagra. Something as natural as watermelon could never be as strong as Viagra, but depending on the circumstances, it could try to compete.

The key component in watermelon in this regard is citrulline amino acid. It is thought to be a powerful vasodilator in blood vessels throughout the body. This would obviously include the organs that one uses in sexual activities. In men, vasodilation in that area produces more powerful erections. In women, this same vessel dilation results in heightened tactile sensitivity.

There is also the question of libido. Over the counter, drugs do not only prepare a person physically for the act, but they also enhance a person’s desire to engage in said activities. Watermelon can apparently be useful for erectile dysfunction as well. It has been found to increase the libido of both men and women. Instead of having cake for dessert, it might be a good idea to give watermelon a try. The results may surprise and delight you.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

13. Asparagus

There is a certain branch of homeopathy that believes foods that look like certain organs are beneficial for those same organs. This would clearly not be the case for all foods, but there are some that would be of interest here. Asparagus is obviously a phallic-looking vegetable. There is no mistaking its resemblance to the male sex organ once one has decided to see the similarity.

Asparagus has high levels of vitamin B, which is more commonly known as folate. This vitamin is not of interest itself, but rather the prevailing chemicals that it has an impact on. One such chemical is histamine. Histamine is an incredibly powerful vasodilator. If it has not been made clear before, a vasodilator is a substance which results in the dilation of blood vessels. Dilated blood vessels allow for greater blood flow as they have an increased capacity. Constricted blood vessels, on the other hand, restrict the flow of blood.

Histamine may be a vasodilator, but it is only nitric oxide that dilates the vessels in the penis thus resulting in an erection. Asparagus will therefore not directly influence the prevalence of a man’s erection, but rather the effects will be subtler.

Histamine in terms of sexual activities will result in heightened sensitivity in both men and women alike. Although this may be more marked in women. There is also the argument that an increase in blood flow directly impacts a person’s libido. While asparagus may make a person’s, urine smell odd its benefits could outweigh its cons in this context. It is also a very healthy vegetable, so there is no harm in including it at dinner or lunchtime.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

14. Celery

Celery has been given a bad reputation both in and out of the dieting community. Those in the dieting community eat it so much that they cannot stand it anymore, while those outside perceives it as a ridiculously healthy and unappetizing snack to eat. You have to wonder how people would view it if they knew what celery could do for a man’s attractiveness.

Every mammal on this planet secretes these things called pheromones. These chemicals are generally secreted via sweat, and they aim to increase the attractiveness of a person. This process is a completely biological and instinctual one. We cannot exactly pinpoint the smell of a pheromone. All we know is that once it enters our noses, it wreaks havoc on our brains making us lust after the delicious creature that is emitting it.

Certain scientists have even studied these pheromones in the hope of creating a perfume that will literally make the wearer more attractive to the opposite sex. Celery could very well do this naturally. This show is not all that clear but the result has been spoken about by a well-respected doctor and researcher so there should be some validity to the statement.

The gist of it is this; celery could potentially alter the pheromone levels in a man’s sweat. Thus, making him relatively more attractive to a woman who were to pass by his general vicinity.

ADVERTISEMENT - CONTINUE READING BELOW

15. Garlic

There is possibly not a single person on this planet who actually finds garlic breath desirable. The horrible stench it produces makes this vegetable on this list a veritable catch-22. It will make your breath smell rather bad, but on the other hand, it could get you in the mood to get down and dirty. Is it worth a whole packet full of gum or should it be given a miss entirely?

A decision can only be made once the facts have been examined. Like peppers, garlic is classed as hot food. It does not contain capsaicin-like peppers, but it has its own heat-producing chemical. This chemical is allicin.

Allicin increases blood flow. But, this blood flow is quite specific to sexual organs. This means that a person who consumes garlic will not have an overall flushed feeling, but rather they will have a stirring in a very suggestive area.

The effects that garlic has on libido are however not instantaneous. One cannot go to town on a garlic bulb and then go to town elsewhere. They will need to consume the product over an extended period of time. Research suggests that a month should do it. It can also not be eaten cooked, which excludes eating it with a meal. For an enhanced libido, a person will need to eat garlic totally raw. This will obviously not be an option for most people, and therefore it is suggested to take it in capsule form. This method should also attempt to deal with the breath issue.

Advertisement