1. Leave those old grudges behind.
Everyone has had a heated discussion with someone that ends in many feelings of resentment and anger. Those emotions can stay with you for a while, depending on how big the fight was. All those negative feelings in the back of your mind can come back to haunt you from time to time and stop you from having your best life. Holding on to those grudges involving a loved one, coworker, or anyone else can affect your mental being. Over time, it brings anxiety and even depression, which can physically cause you to age quicker. And the thing here is not much about how you can look on the outside. What matters is how it will make you feel inside and how to deal with those emotions.
First off, you need to understand that whatever you are feeling, it’s only affecting your life, and not anyone else. So, to free yourself from those thoughts, you must cope, heal, and move forward. You only live once (YOLO!). Utilize the little time you have in this world to finding your happiness. Surrounding yourself with good vibes while throwing away the ones that don’t feel good is the best thing you can do. Do not hesitate to seek help from a professional. That is especially true if you think it’s too much for you to deal with on your own. A professional can help you move on your time and terms. In the end, letting go of all that is not good for your mind and body will help you glow as you have never glowed before. That alone can make you look radiant, young, and completely free. Don’t be afraid to look for that happy place and be better.